So the Guy You’ve Been Dating for a Decade Is Gay

“He said, ‘I’m having issues with my sexuality — I’m fantasizing about going down on men.’ I laughed. I thought he was joking. Then he burst into wracking sobs, and my whole body went cold. This was a man who never even let me touch his butt!” — After nine years of engagement, Kiri Blakeley’s fiancé finally let her touch his butt told her he was gay. (Sorry if that sounds flip — it’s a sad story but an interesting read!)